Tuesday, September 22, 2020

A Million Words or Less about Reagan

Reagan's English teacher asked us parents to write an introductory letter to her about our child.  This is what I wrote:

Reagan is 11 years old, and lives with her two older twin brothers (Quinn and Colby, aged 16), and her Mom and Dad, Monica and Rob.  She lives in Chassell, and has lived there her entire life.

Reagan started young 5’s in Houghton, but then transferred to Chassell for Kindergarten, before transferring back to Houghton for 1st grade.  She’s been in Houghton ever since.

Reagan is SUPER creative and artistic!  She loves to paint, draw, create and build.  Since she was two years old, she has wanted to be an architect, and that dream continues to this day.  She is constantly crafting up in her bedroom – her walls and shelves are filled with her creations.  Her favorite “toy” is her glue gun.   She is very organized, and spent much of this year’s shut down rearranging and reorganizing her bedroom, several times.  She has designed, sewn, and worn, her own formal dress for a trip to the Grand Hotel on Mackinac Island with her dad.  She is in robotics, and loves to problem solve and come up with designs to achieve tasks.  When her dad got his tractor stuck in the mud recently, Reagan got out pen and paper, and designed a lift system to try and get it unstuck.  She is a problem-solver, and is always thinking.  Reagan chooses her outfits for the entire school week, and puts them in individual compartments in her closet, so as to be more efficient getting ready for school in the morning.  She makes her own lunch ahead of time, and has commandeered her own shelf in the refrigerator for the foods she has prepared for her school lunches.

Reagan is obsessed with her cat.  She loves Senia beyond all reasonable measures 😊.  She carries this cat around with her whenever she is home, and plays videos on her laptop so the cat is entertained.  We have a dog named Gunner as well, and 6 goldfish, but the cat is Reagan’s.  She is in charge of the litter box.

Reagan loves to sing and listen to music.  She is in choir at school.  We often hear her singing to herself up in her bedroom, while listening to Pandora. 

Reagan loves to FLY!  Her Dad is a private pilot, and the two of them fly together to Mackinac Island every year, and also frequently go camping in the plane.  Reagan plans on getting her pilot’s license as soon as she is old enough, and will be participating in a “Girls in Aviation” event this next weekend. 

Reagan is an EXCELLENT baker!  She loves to watch cooking shows, and has learned some pretty impressive skills.  She will bake macaroons, or her grandmother’s birthday cake.  She will cook dinner for the entire family and “plate” it artistically.  If she cuts a watermelon for a snack, she will use a flower-shaped cookie cutter so that each piece can be arranged beautifully on the plate before she eats it.  Aesthetics are very important to Reagan.

Reagan is very empathetic and conscientious.  She can tell instinctively when someone is sad or hurting.  She is very curious, very aware of what is going on around her, especially emotionally.  She will often hand-make gifts for teachers, having sewn pillows, made table runners, brought flowers, or left cards for her teachers over the years.   She has two very close friends (Maria and Evelyn), and is shy around new people, but will push herself outside her comfort zone to try things she knows are hard for her.  This year, without knowing anyone else or having run before, she joined cross country.  She has done exercises outside of practice in order to improve her time, and has set goals for herself.  This has impressed me immensely.  During this past shut down, Reagan spent a lot of time alone while her Dad and I were at work, and her brothers hung out with each other.  She didn’t complain, but spent hours upon hours alone in her bedroom, doing crafts by herself, not being able to socialize with friends.  In the six months since school ended last March, Reagan saw another 11 year old girl exactly three times.   This worried her father and I, and we are so glad that school has resumed in person, and she is back around other kids!!!

Thank you for taking the time to get to know our daughter!


Saturday, September 12, 2020

Culture Shock

 Reagan has begun middle school.  And cross country.  These are totally new experiences in her world.  She was very worried about where to change her clothes for gym class and cross country.  I told her that she would change in the locker room.  She wasn't sure she could find the locker room on the first day of school.  Reportedly, she took her gym clothes into the bathroom and changed in there for cross country.  On the SECOND day of school, after I picked her up from cross country, Reagan told me THIS:


"Mom, I went into the locker room today, and.... NO.  Just... how do people.... all together... they were.... I AM NOT DOING THAT.  I will get dressed in the bathroom."


HAHAHAHAHAHA

Sunday, September 6, 2020

Pessimism on the River


 

We went for a family canoe ride yesterday - Colby, Reagan and I in one large aluminum canoe, and Quinn and Dad in another.  Our canoe was not nearly as maneuverable as the other, and drafted quite a bit lower.  It was far less stable than the other one as well, which made it wobblier.  This meant that we drug bottom ALOT more than Quinn and Rob, and almost flipped a couple of times..  Which had Reagan super anxious.  And verbal.

Reagan: "What is this?  I thought this was supposed to be a relaxing trip?  How can I relax when I'm about to die???"

Mom: "Reagan, you are not about to die.  We are in six inches of water.  That's why we're dragging bottom.  How will you die in six inches of water?"

Reagan: "This canoe will flip over on top of me, and I will suffocate and drown."

Mom: "There is an air pocket under a canoe when it flips over.  You will not drown. Plus Colby and I are here to help you.  We're ok!  Look at the beautiful surroundings!  Just relax and enjoy the float!"

Reagan: "I cannot relax if I'm about to die.  Look at Quinn relaxing up there.  Because Dad is doing all the paddling, and he just gets to relax.  NICE."

Colby: "Shut up."

Mom: "Colby, that is not helpful.  Reagan, what I always do when I'm in a challenging situation is think of the worst case scenario.  And then I can deal with the worst case scenario, and know it's not so bad!  We're in a shallow river with a slow current.  You tell me... what is the worst thing that could happen in this situation?"

Reagan: "I could die."  (Heavy sigh from Mom).

Colby: "These are my two life mottoes.  Remember these things, Reagan.  Number 1: Dad is always wrong.  He said the river would get deeper and the float easier as we go along, and it hasn't.  Number 2: Always have low expectations, and then you're never disappointed."

Mom: "Very inspiring, Colby.  Thanks for that."

Reagan: "I hate EVERY SECOND OF THIS!"


UGH.  I thought it was a lovely float!  And I thought that we worked super well as a team when we did get stuck!  I was proud of us!  


Wednesday, September 2, 2020

And The Winner IS.....

Reagan is not too excited to join band. Her mama is insisting that she give it at least a few years, as I have been woefully inept at Reagan's musical education. She took two years of piano lessons, during which time I realized that she could not even read music, and that was it.  She sings to the radio, and will also be joining choir now that she's in middle school, but I think it's important that she also gets experience in band, to learn some basics about music theory.  

Usually, Mrs. Fontaine has an event where incoming 6th graders get to try out various instruments and decide what they want to play.  Due to covid, that event didn't happen this year, BUT... I have known Mrs. Fontaine for the past 15 years (when we were both new moms with infant twin boys), and so I just called the lady up.  Can Reagan come talk to her and decide what she wants to play?  Mrs. Fontaine was willing, because she's awesome like that.

Reagan tried very nearly everything there was to try.  She originally said she definitely didn't want the flute, because "EVERYONE" plays the flute, and she didn't want something big, that wouldn't fit in her locker.  OK then.  







It was fun seeing her try all these instruments.  She could make sounds on all of them, but the one that seemed to come the easiest?  The one Mrs. Fontaine immediately recommended upon seeing the structure of Reagan's mouth? The baritone.  YES.  Essentially a tuba.  Who knew.  And it was the one Reagan was most excited about.  Only 3 valves, so not overwhelming in the finger department, and she could get a really cool sound out of it without much effort.  

Baritone it is.  We're ready for band to start!